How to tell someone you are not interested in dating
The difference between a guy who’s into you and a guy who just wants to sleep with you is that the one who’s genuinely interested will wait for your signal that it’s okay for him to get a little closer.
[Read: 7 signs you’re dating a player] #9 Deep eye contact.
Where women are subtle, men tend to wear their intentions on their sleeve.
There are some cases where men can be manipulative in that they try to lie their way into your good graces for the sole purpose of getting into your pants.
He’ll bring you home, because he wants his loved ones to meet someone he is really into and considers a potential long-term girlfriend.
He also wants their opinion, so that he knows what his loved ones think before taking the next step.
For example, if he brings up wanting to take you somewhere or show you something at some time in the future, he’s showing that he wants you around for the long term.
Guys who aren’t that into you will say vague statements like “you should go there sometime” or “ask a friend to take you there.” When you become an established person in his future-tense plans, he’s establishing his interest.
His eyes will be glued to you, and he’ll be holding on to every word you say.
He might have tunnel vision where it’s like he hardly notices anything else going on in the room.
These are all good signs that he’s made you the center of attention, and he’s definitely interested. A guy who’s interested in you will begin to include you in future plans and scenarios.
If a guy stares deeply into your eyes, he is definitely interested, to the point where you wonder if he blinked at all while you were talking.
This is a fairly obvious sign that he can’t keep his eyes off you. A lot of guys get really playful when they truly like someone.