Dating polite rejection ways saturday night live online dating
So either say nothing (you don’t even know this person – you are not obligated to respond), or simply say, ‘I don’t think we’re a match, but thanks for the email.’ I think it’s important to note, though, that rejection can be a good thing!
If I hadn’t been told ‘I’m not interested’ by various men I’ve liked over the years, I wouldn’t have found the love of my life.
However, most of them don’t want to hurt their admirers’ hearts and feel the pangs of conscience every time they have to come up with an excuse or just ghost.
If you are one of those nice girls and you want to make your rejection sound as polite as possible, this article is for you. If a girl rejects to have a date with you, there can be a very simple explanation to it – she has more important things to do.
Thank them for the message, mention you don’t think that you’re the right ‘match,’ and of course, end by wishing them well.” — Laurie Davis, Online Dating Coach and founder of Eflirt Expert.
If you do feel the need to respond, keep it simple: thank, decline, wish well.
There are some days when the desire to stay at home and do nothing dominates. If you approach a girl on the street, you can’t know whether she is single or in a relationship.
And it can happen that you ask a woman out particularly on one of those days. Another reason why a girl may not want to go out with you is that she is not into you that much and she doesn’t feel your date can bring her any pleasure. It may turn out that you approached a girl who already has a boyfriend.
While his/her ego may be bruised initially, trust me in the long run s/he will appreciate and respect you for it, because you didn’t leave him/her hanging.” — Suzanne Oshima, Matchmaker & Dating Coach at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette.
“There is no “good” way, because you can’t control how another person will feel.
Your “No, thank you” will solve the problem for both of you. If your main concern is how to turn down a date without hurting his feelings, an option of lying becomes more tempting.